Stuff we feel neutral about: Chicken pot pie. But one thing you shouldn't have a take-it-or-leave-it attitude towards is tongue action. Oral is the form of sex that the majority of women say is most likely to give them an orgasm, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First.
Ladies okay, men too let's get real. You need to learn how to please your man with your mouth. Different men like different things, and there are a variety of techniques and positions that will both please him and make it comfortable for you.
Whether you use the technical term fellatio or call it a blowjob, going down, giving head, or something else, performing fellatio is an act that requires a lot of trust and a little bit of knowledge. If you believe everything you hear, you might think that guys love this so much technique and intent don't matter. Think again.
When it comes to performing oral sexit can be as helpful knowing what not to do as what you should be doing. With some help from my friends, here's a definitive guide of what to avoid when you're going down:. If your hand skills are good enough, you barely have to use your lips.
First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins!
Just like the rest of your sex routine, oral benefits from regularly mixing it up. Mix up your oral game by physically moving around and trying new positions, just like you do in the rest of your sex life. The more body parts that are in the air, the better.
I want to thank all the guys out there who give it their all during oral sex. And we know how much it reaffirms your masculinity when we That said, there are a few um, more than a few of you out there who could use a little help in getting us there.
Women love when you go down on them, and here's how to get it right. Recently, a friend posed a question: What would you do if man refused to perform oral sex or go down on a woman he was dating? Only about 13 percent said they could live without it, despite consistent misconceptions and myths that women don't care as much about receiving oral sex as men do. In fact, performing oral sex on a woman is one of the surest ways to give her the most intense orgasms of her life!
Oral sex is brilliantisn't it? It's ridiculously intimate, severely sensual, and you don't necessarily have to take all your clothes off to do it. But trust me, there's more to fellatio than, as we Brits so tastefully put it, getting your gob round his nob or your gums round his plums.